豆豆问了这个问题不下二十遍了，可是我不明白她是什么意思，更不用说回答了。我要求她用中文讲，或者换一种说法，她固执的说，I don’t know how to say it in Chinese. Everybody knows what free means. 同样的事情以前发生过，但是最后都以两个人怒吼结束。今天我终于做到了没有怒吼，但是并没解决问题，最后我还是不明白豆豆在问什么，她坚持了十几分钟不了了之了。这算是正确解决方式吗？
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一般我会跟进“free from what?"， “do you mean free time to do something?", or "do you ask me whether I'm free from work tomorrow?" etc. 我们家这位中英文混在一起用，有时候表达不清楚或者错位，需要提问跟进，他才能说清楚。
"固执"这个标签贴在豆豆身上是不太适合的。豆豆是我们家里4个人离“固执”最远的一个人了。我觉得我可以试着have a conversation with her，而不是急呼呼地要有个答案或让她闭嘴😄，例如： are you asking me or someone else? Oh, tomorrow is free for me You don't anything planned for tomorrow You will have a piano class, other than that nothing planned tomorrow is free for all be-cau-se we don't need to pay to have tomorrow do you have any idea or plan for tomorrow? 最后一旦知道她想问什么了，可以跟她表示我的开头的困惑 I was actually not sure how to answer your question. If next time you want to know ...., maybe you can ask this way .... So I can understand your questions clearly. Would you please? 可能大人心里的着急的时候，一个可以有趣的conversation就失去了。我们大人着急做下一件事情实际是需要好好面对一下的，心里不急了，可能就都好了，我瞎说的哈
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一般我会跟进“free from what?"， “do you mean free time to do something?", or "do you ask me whether I'm free from work tomorrow?" etc. 我们家这位中英文混在一起用，有时候表达不清楚或者错位，需要提问跟进，他才能说清楚。
"固执"这个标签贴在豆豆身上是不太适合的。豆豆是我们家里4个人离“固执”最远的一个人了。我觉得我可以试着have a conversation with her，而不是急呼呼地要有个答案或让她闭嘴😄，例如：
are you asking me or someone else?
Oh, tomorrow is free for me
You don't anything planned for tomorrow
You will have a piano class, other than that nothing planned
tomorrow is free for all be-cau-se we don't need to pay to have tomorrow
do you have any idea or plan for tomorrow?
最后一旦知道她想问什么了，可以跟她表示我的开头的困惑
I was actually not sure how to answer your question. If next time you want to know ...., maybe you can ask this way .... So I can understand your questions clearly. Would you please?
可能大人心里的着急的时候，一个可以有趣的conversation就失去了。我们大人着急做下一件事情实际是需要好好面对一下的，心里不急了，可能就都好了，我瞎说的哈
谢谢分享经验！下次试用。
大人心里着急而失去一个有趣的对话，真的就是这样啊。 爸爸妈妈意识到这个问题，就可解的。:)
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